Do you have a favourite place?
It’s better to have that. That one place to go to when storms attack your life and feelings. That one place that’s untouched by the evil.
For some it’s a real place, for others it’s the moment with someone else. You know about that rule of some couples: Never go to sleep with anger between the two of them.
Sometimes you have to fight for that. Sometimes you need to recapture that place. Anyhow this place as an idea is in some strange way combined with the idea or the wish of untouchableness.
And sometimes this correlates to the worst place:
Sometimes you should just have left it untouched.